41 Weeks.

[This post is a little overdue, but it's hard work being a new Mommy, and my time has been very limited the past week and a half.  I do intend to post Elliott's birth story, but first I wanted to conclude my series of letters to Elliott.]



Elliott:

You are here!  I induced on your due date at 5:30am, and after 12 hours of labor, you arrived at 6:00pm.  You weighed 8 pounds 11 ounces, and measured 20 1/4 inches long.  I cried when I saw you, amazed by how perfect you are.  The moment they placed you on my chest is a moment I'll never forget.  Your Daddy and I were both filled with love for you in that moment, it's love like we've never known before.

This first week has been rough.  We brought you home on Saturday, and had to be readmitted on Sunday for 24 hours of phototherapy, because your bilirubin levels were too high.  We had to watch them stick your little hand more times than I can count, I've struggled to learn how to breastfeed you, and we've gotten very little sleep, but I wouldn't change it for the world.  You are home and healthy, and you have filled our home to the brim with love.

It's hard for me to wrap my head around the fact that you were growing inside of me for the past 40 weeks.  What an amazing thing!  We are praising God for your life, and looking forward to watching you grow outside the womb over the years.


So, welcome to the world little guy.  We will be your biggest fans in life, encouraging you to be whatever you want to be.

We love you more than you will ever know,
Momma

40 Weeks


Elliott:

We've reached the end of our pregnancy.  Tomorrow is your due date.  You weigh anywhere from 6 to 9 pounds, and measure anywhere from 19 to 22 inches.  My guess is that you'll weigh in the 8 pound range and measure around 21 inches.

This week has probably been the slowest week of my pregnancy.  I have been anxiously awaiting your arrival, and being off work has made the days seem long and slow.  We went to see Dr. Chang on Tuesday, and I was hoping for some progress since last week.  I walked 2 to 3 miles almost every day this week, hoping that would help.  However, I was disappointed to find that we had made no new progress.  That makes 2 weeks with no progress and no real noticeable contractions.  Dr. Chang said he would give us one more week to go into labor naturally, but then he would have to induce.  We decided we couldn't stand the thought of another long, slow week waiting and wondering when and if you were coming, especially since we weren't showing any signs of progress.  So after much debate, we decided to induce on your due date (tomorrow) at 5:30am.

Since our appointment I have been a mess emotionally: wondering if we made the right decision to induce even though I wanted a natural labor, feeling excited to finally know when you will be here, feeling nervous about the labor and delivery, and overwhelmed by how much I love you.  But, tonight I feel at peace about our decision.  This time tomorrow we will have you in our arms, and that fills my heart with joy.

Today I spent my last day nesting like crazy, wiping down every surface and vacuuming every corner, then your Daddy took me on a dinner date to Loca Luna since it may be a while before we have the time to go out just the two of us after tonight.  Our bags are packed and the car is loaded, now if I could only get some sleep...

Counting down the hours,
Momma

Our Top 11 for 2011.

2011 has been a good year for us.  We have so much to be thankful for this year!  As I reflect on the past 12 months today, I wanted to make note of a few milestones in our lives and family this year.

1. Celebrating 4 years of marriage this past January at the Treehouse Cottages in Eureka Springs.  We enjoyed a quiet weekend away, watching movies by the fire, cooking and eating in, enjoying the view from our treehouse, and getting a couples massage at the famous Crescent Hotel.


2.  Taking our dream trip to Europe in April.  We spent 2 weeks overseas, stopping in London, Paris, Florence, Venice and Rome.  Seeing all the famous sights from the history books in person, was truly amazing.



3.  Finding out we are expecting our first child!  This definitely tops the list, it's been all we have thought about for the past 9 months in preparing for his arrival.



4.  Finding out the gender of our baby- it's a boy, and seeing him via ultrasound.  This was an experience I'll never forget, seeing our baby for the first time, moving and healthy.  I have never felt love like this before, we haven't stopped dreaming of him since.


5.  Adding on to our house.  With our family growing, we decided we needed a little more room in our house for the new addition.  This summer, we transformed our screened in porch to a sunroom/playroom for Elliott.  (We've still been putting the finishing the touches on the room, so be looking for pics of the finished product in the near future.)


6.  Celebrating 3 years of business for Katherine Grant Salon and Spa.  Our business continues to be successful.  We had a few changes in staff, but the Lord has been faithful to provide for us again this year.  We currently have 5 stylists (including myself), 2 nail technicians, and 1 massage therapist.  Our clients often compliment me on our team, and I'm thankful to know I'm leaving things in good hands while I'm out on maternity leave for the next 6 weeks.


7.  Gary placed in the top 3 for sales at Jenkins Enterprises (out of 10 sales reps) for the second consecutive year.  Less than 1% separated him from the #2 rep.  I'm so proud of all he has accomplished at work this year!


8.  Gary went on his first overseas business trip to Hong Kong this year.  He was able to learn a different side to our family's business, meeting the people who manufacture the goods that he sells.  He also got to experience a new culture, eating some interesting things, including the little guy he's holding in the photo below.


9.  My parents bought and flipped a house on the lake in Hot Springs this year.  We enjoyed spending several weekends relaxing with my family on the lake this summer, and we're looking forward to the memories we will all make there as a family in the years to come.  Some of my best memories growing up include spending time with my family at my grandparent's lake house.


10.  Spending a long weekend with the entire Grant side of the family in Nashville, TN.  Each year, Gary's grandparents plan a trip/family reunion for the entire family to gather and catch up.  We enjoyed spending time talking, eating, shopping and even line dancing with his family in Music City over the 4th of July weekend.


11.  Our continued involvement and community at Epoch Church has been such a source of joy and encouragement in our lives this year.  We have been encouraged weekly through the Sunday evening services, and small group sessions at Nathan and Natalie's home on Wednesday nights.  The church wide fall retreat, and women's retreat were much needed get-aways for us to refocus on the Lord.  The people in our community at Epoch threw us a wonderful shower for baby Elliott, and constantly encourage us to strive to be better people.  We could not make it through life's daily struggles without this strong support system in our lives.


As 2011 draws to a close, we reflect on all we have to be thankful for this year, and look ahead to all that 2012 will hold for our growing family.

Just For Fun.


...and to think, I thought I had a "bump" at 12 weeks!

39 Weeks.


Elliott:

Well, we're still waiting for you to make your debut.  This week you should be between 7 and 7.5 pounds, still about the size of a watermelon.  We celebrated Christmas this week. Our last Christmas as a family of two.  All anyone could talk about was how exciting next Christmas will be with you here.  You'll be the center of attention, I'm sure.

We went to see D. Chang yesterday, and to my disappointment, we had made no progress. Looks like you are nice and cozy for now.  He told us we could induce labor as early as tomorrow if we wanted, but your Daddy and I decided we want to wait and let you come when you're ready.  Either way, Dr. Chang won't let you stay in there longer than 1 week past your due date (Jan. 5th), so in two weeks or less you will be here for sure.

My maternity leave started this week, and it's a good thing, because I've come down with a cold, and haven't felt like doing much.  I've been trying to rest up, so I'll be all better when you arrive.

We hope to meet you soon,
Momma

Christmas 2011.

We had a very busy, wonderful Christmas filled with lots of family time and good food. This year we got to see almost everyone on both the Grant and Jenkins sides of the family.  

We made the rounds this week, enjoying our last Christmas as a family of two.  Thursday evening we had dinner and games at my Grandmommy and Papa's house (my mom's parents) with my aunt, uncle and cousins.  Friday we drove to Arkadelphia to see the Grant family, including Gary's parents, sister and brother-in-law, who drove in from Texas, his grandparents, and all of his aunts, uncles, and cousins.  Christmas Eve was spent with my parents and siblings, eating a wonderful home cooked meal made by my Momma, and playing Catch Phrase.  

Christmas morning, as is tradition, Gary and I woke up early to read the Christmas story and exchange gifts with each other, and let me just say, my husband is an awesome gift giver.  I gave him very little to work with in way of a Christmas list this year, because all I could think about was getting through Christmas and getting to Elliott's birth day. However, he surprised me with new running shoes to train for my half marathon after baby, new Toms, and a hand stamped ring with Elliott's name on it.  Love him.

After we finished exchanging our gifts, we went to my parent's house to exchange gifts and eat breakfast casserole (my favorite!) with my siblings and grandparents.  This may be our last year to spend Christmas morning at my parent's house since Elliott will be here next year, so it was a special time for us.

Gary's parents, sister and brother-in-law, drove up from Arkadelphia to exchange gifts and spend the afternoon with us at our house.  We enjoyed lounging on the couch, watching a heartbreaking loss for the Dallas Mavericks, and eating leftovers, before they headed back to Arkadelphia and then to Texas.

Our final stop was Christmas dinner at my grandparent's (on my Dad's side) house with my aunts, uncles, cousins and great grandmother.  

Me [and E] with my brother and sister on Christmas Eve.

Me and Gary at my parent's house Christmas Eve.

My beautiful family.

Christmas morning at our house.

The boys in their new shirts from my sister.

The girls in our Christmas PJs Christmas morning at my parent's.

My Grandmommy and Papa Christmas morning.

My in-laws opening gifts at our house.

The Grant family at our house Christmas day.

We feel so blessed to have so much family to celebrate with each year.  I'm thankful we were able to see and catch up with everyone but Gary's mom's side of the family, whom we got to spend Thanksgiving with in Texas.  The gifts are wonderful, but the time with family and the memories made mean so much more this time of year.  We're looking forward to having a little one toddling around this time next year.

The Order's Christmas Eve Party.

On Christmas Eve, three of my oldest friends came over for a Christmas brunch.  We call ourselves "The Order of the Four."  We were inseparable in high school, but our adult lives have spread us all over the world.  Meghan is still close by in North Little Rock, but Kristin lives in Delaware, and Lauren in South Korea.  For the first time in a year and a half, we're all home at the same time.  To celebrate, we ate brunch, exchanged gifts, and watched Elf.  




Our time all together is limited, so I'm thankful we got to catch up, reminisce, and celebrate Christmas together.  No matter where life takes us, we'll always share a special bond.